Fawns most recent rant (in red)! My rant, in white!
“People may think this has nothing to do with color but I assure you, it does… at least in MY mindset it does.Ebony people do NOT play around..well most don’t and I am one of the Most.I am not one of those passive people, or one of those policitally correct people who tell people what they want to hear. I am straight UP and genuine.
From what I’ve read at Kimkins and Campcarbaway, I’d say you ARE (or at-least act like) one of ‘those passive people’. I have never before read such “sucking up” in my life! Your posts, on those sites, DRIP of being passive and policitally correct. ….telling people (like Kimmer and Tippy) what they want to hear. So which is it? Straight up and genuine or Suck Up and Submissive?
I got my peoples, like I am sure we all do. I don’t drag sh-t out. If there is a problem or an injustice we act swiftly. None of this baby momma crap. I deal with with it immediately, problem solve and move on. Seriously. I choose not to go into detail, as that is my right to do so but let’s just say that things were brought to my attention, I contacted my people and it was handled swiftly. We DO NOT mess around. TG I have friends in high authority places and I will leave it at that.
Where were your Peeps when Heidi was scamming thousands out of their hard earned money? Why didn’t you “take action” and deal with her fraud, swiftly? Why did you “drag out” the sugary “fawning” of Heidi and her site, when you knew she was a scam artist and was hurting your, so called, friends? Or were these “friends” not the “peoples” you refer to above. If you “do not mess around” when things are “brought to your attention”, then why haven’t your “peeps” gone after Heidi? Why haven’t you gone “hoodie” on her? OR HAVE YOU??
Case in point….. One time I was driving in Colorado on my way to the movies and I was running a bit late and I hate to be late. The person in front of me was dragging their a– of deciding which wasy to turn and I honked my horn. This person in turn let me pass by and yelled out the window ” what the F— is your problem”Don’t you know that I stopped my car mid-way in the intersection and turned my a– around and went into persuit.We stopped at the next light and I took me a– OUT of my car and went to theirs. Yes there was three people in the car but do you think I gave a f—? Hell no, I yelled at them to get the hell out of the car and face me. no bs…. this is me.The person closest to me rolled up her window in fear and the male driver would not get out the car and the one in the backseat scooted away from the window closest to me.The light turned and they drove off. I got back in my car and calmed down, heart racing, ready to fight. (that’s what I mean by boys in the hood). I’m shaking in my boots! Oh, Fawn – if you were so tuff, then why did you keep kissing Heidi’s ass? Knowing full well, she was hurting your friends?
Generally speaking……. when I share that you all, handle things one way and we handle it another way… that’s how we are and I cannot be more open and honest then that, seriously. It is not in my nature to be meek and mild. It is in my nature to be kind to people that may need help or uplifting so to speak BUT try to jump in my koolaid, girl please… its ON then.so my reply: No one who knows me well, would ever dare every threaten me. And if people jump in my koolaid, then dam it I am ready, bring it! I am not bragging, I am tell you the truth. I do not waste time bs-ing anybody, I am straight up hood on the Real but with a touch of class when it comes to people I care about.
Ok – which is it? Not Meek and Mild, BUT Helpful and Uplifting…..OR Staight up Hood? I am confussed by these two paragraphs. It’s not in your nature to be meek and mild, but, it IS in your nature to be helpful and kind to those that may need it (or people you care about)?? So, my question would be, did you care about any of those poor people that Heidi shit on? Did you care about those that believed her crap and are now suffering for doing so? If you’re not bs-ing anyone…. then what is your position on that? If you’re straight up hood on the REAL (but with a touch of class), then what’s your take on Heidi? And why, may I ask, ALL THE “FAWNING” AT THE KIMPOUND??? In person, there are times when I am professional and then there are times when my assertiveness or agreesiveness comes out when needed. That level of temperment really needs to be worked on, but let’s face it, I am who I am and do not pretend to be otherwise.
I will defend those who I believe speak the truth at the time, but let me find out for SURE they are full of s–t and then I am done.
Is this your way of answering my questions above? Am I reading this correctly? You defended Kimmer, who you believed, spoke the truth at the time, but, if you find out for SURE she is full of it, THEN you’re done. Just trying to understand your thought process. Maybe it would be best to come right out and tell us what your thoughts are on Kimmer (Heidi K. Diaz) – so that none of us have to speculate.
Online, I thought it was harder to handle situations but come to find out, it is NOT as hard as I once thought….. well I know it now.
where are you pictures? why did you take it down?
I cannot go into detail. I promised I would not. My word is my bond. If I tell someone I will not repeat specific information then that is exactly what I do. So I will answer your question in a general term.
A situation arose, and quite frankly I do not have the money to hire people for I live paycheck to paycheck like most people with a little savings that I just recently started, BUT I am lucky to know people in the legal system here locally and like me they do not mess around.
Of course when I came to them I was furious cause momma dont play that sh-t. It is one thing to share Accurate information and then I give credit where credit is do and that’s the truth but use something of mines that belongs to me, child please.. its ON then.
????? Not sure I understand this! So I won’t comment.
Summary:
A situation came up that something that belongs to me was used elsewhere on the net without my knowledge or consent and it was investigated in a matter of hours, shut down and handled with legal proceedings swiftly cause if it was left up to me, I would have been done something because I have a short temper but my people had to calm me down and sh-t.
Fawn, we know you’re TUFF! You’ve tried to tell us so in SO MANY WAYS!!! Just not tough enough to stand up, and tell Kimmer how it really is.
Legal advice: Don’t ever put myself in a compromising position because it can be copied and pasted elsewhere.
This kinda stuff happened before but it was a story of mines and again I will not go into detail because that situation I handled myself. Again I didnt know my story was being used elsewhere for the benefit of profit and I immediately contacted that person and I assure you my story was deleted in five minutes by the other person who posted it elsewhere.
I do not play around. This passive/agreessive bs that people play… I don’t play. I am sincerely a nice person to people but jump in my koolaid or space and I will jump all over it without a second thought on the REAL.
Are you sure you don’t play?? Because, from what I’ve seen, with my own two eyes…. You play it (the passive/agressive roll) quite well!!
bottom line: I took down my photo on my blog by the advice of my legal people…. no not everyone speaks and behaves like me, short tempered and boys in the hood of it all, but they know how to handle sh-t swiftly which shocked the hell out of me.
It is a shame when one can’t trust people too much or at all on the net. Okay true that, sometimes I look thru rose colored glasses let’s say and believe that no one would do another harm… but in reality it is not always that way.
You’re right Fawn, it IS a shame – Kimmer is an evil woman. She means to cause harm to anyone who gets in her way!
Medusa, know that I answered your questions to the best of my ability within the contraints and confines of people handling this situation which would have otherwise cost me thousands of dollars and girl I dont have a pot to piss on. So yes I obliged and gave my word and kept it. If I am nothing else,I am a person of my word, short temper and all. They did me a favor and I will honor that favor by keeping my word.
Not to mention I do not like to drag out the Baby Momma drama sh-t. If there is a problem, handle your business swiftly and move on.
Truth be told I was crying when this sh=t happened but ya know what? I will NOT allow a crap to deter me from my goals. It would have been Easy to have ate myself silly, as I am a big eater, but I maintained self-control and let my people handle the sh=t that was above my abilities and now it is done.
okay clearly I was not able to not curse too much BUT at least I didnt spell it out…. I do have faults to work on and that is a major one… learning to speak calmly without crusing. A work in progress.
I agree with you…. YOU DIDN’T SPELL IT OUT! You only left us with MORE questions. Questions about your thoughts of Kimmer. You have left the Kimpound, you have received a refund, NOW, where do you stand on Kimmer?? Is she the reason you are SO angry?? Or something else? Did she do something to piss you off? Or was it someone else? Did she use your pictures and/ or story? Or someone else? You see, to me, your inability to speak clearly – what is on you mind, makes me wonder about the whole passive/agressive denial. I think you aren’t as tough as you’d like us to think. I think you are afraid of the KIMMER. I think, by writing this very long, hard to understand, post, you are really just trying not to have to deal with the situation head on. I think, by speaking of constraints and confines….. and not being CLEAR – you are purposly keeping others in the dark, so to speak. Why is that??
WHY did I “choose” to post and answer your questions as best I could when it was really nobody’s business and let’s face it, you are a stranger to me…. it was because of your accurate information that you posted about me on your blog… and your captions of the “way we were” was very creative and actually made me laugh because it was true and it was true about me leaving the compound and I believe in giving credit where credit is due.
yes this is a long post, but I am true to who I am… I am a longgggggg poster of the written word.
Too bad your longggggg post didn’t really say much! If it had, maybe we (or I) could be more supportive. But, as it stands – I have NO IDEA WHAT TO THINK!!!!
I will not speak any more on this topic again… remember I have restraints.
fawn. “
Fawn, these are a few of the hard questions I’m asking. You don’t owe me or anyone an anwer. This is true. But, if you’d like me to take you for your word, then I’d like to “understand” your word better and I need to know more. I’d like for you to enlighten me and answer my questions and concerns with straight forward words and comments. I really would like to understand you better.